Posts by Category: Life

The conflict between marriage and friendship

The conflict between marriage and friendship

December 08, 2011

A couple of weeks ago I was web surfing and came upon an article on married vs. single friendship written by Demetira L Lucas.  In it she posed the question: Should women in relationships have single friends?

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Abstinence ili che, but…

Abstinence ili che, but…

November 27, 2011

Last year I wrote an (rather tame) article for a Fashion/Christian magazine that coincided with the uproar surrounding the ‘Sex-Ed curriculum’ debate.  And since World AIDS day is just around the corner I thought it would be a good time to fish it out and perhaps be a little more honest than I was.

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A car worth writing about

A car worth writing about

November 21, 2011

Last weekend my husband and I were driving to my aunt’s house, the road was a little bumpy and I found myself going “wooooooh”.  The only other person who had ever made that sound when driving was my dad.

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Here and Now

Here and Now

November 13, 2011

Test: You’re reading this right? Are you really thinking about what I’m going to write or are you thinking about something else? No? You’re thinking what the hell is she talking about? Ok…on to the post then.

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Who are the people in your neighbourhood?

Who are the people in your neighbourhood?

November 08, 2011

I was watching the news last week and there was a poll asking whether you feel safe in your neighbourhood.  I’ve been thinking about that Sesame Street song for a little while now, but let’s not get carried away by that nostalgic melody.

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Ghosts

Ghosts

November 05, 2011

If you haven’t already noticed through reading my blog, I have a thing for sayings, Bemba ones mostly, grew up with a lot of them and as years have gone by, most have turned out to be true.

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Meditation isn’t always easy, at least for me.

Meditation isn’t always easy, at least for me.

October 26, 2011

It’s hard to meditate when you’re a mouth breather.

I’ve been a little stressed the past couple of weeks, partly due to my jam-packed to-do list and my over achieving attitude.  Needless to say, “woo-sah” has been an inevitable mantra I’ve been chanting.

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Time

Time

October 15, 2011

In the past five years I’ve lost two friendships that if you’d asked five years ago if we’d be where we are now, I’d have told you, you were out of your mind.

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